Write A Eulogy With Heart, Clarity, And Confidence
Compassionate Guidance When Your Words Matter Most.
Linda Trignano
Grief Coach, End-of-Life Doula
Have you been asked to speak at a funeral for someone you love?
Being chosen to deliver a eulogy is a profound honor, but it can also feel overwhelming. In the midst of grief, finding the right words to express love, gratitude, and memory can feel impossible. You may know what’s in your heart, yet struggle to shape it into something you feel confident sharing aloud. This is where gentle guidance can make all the difference.
As a certified grief coach and end-of-life doula, I work with you one-on-one to help you prepare emotionally and practically to deliver it. Together, we create a eulogy you can feel proud of, one that honors your loved one and brings comfort to those gathered.
Shape your memories into a meaningful message.
Speak with confidence, calm, and authenticity
Prepare emotionally and practically to deliver it.
A eulogy is more than a speech. It is a loving tribute.
Ready to Begin writing the eulogy?
What is the purpose of a eulogy?
You don’t have to rely only on your own memories—you may choose to gather stories from family and friends to create a richer, more complete tribute.
How I Help You Write A Meaningful Eulogy
With personalized coaching, we walk through each step together at your pace.
1. Clarifying Your Message
We begin with what matters most:
- What do you want others to remember?
- What do you want your loved one to be known for?
- What feelings do you want people to leave with?
2. Choosing A Theme Or Tone
Your eulogy, in a tone that is right for you, may be:
- Reflective
- Hopeful
- Gratitude-filled
- Light with gentle humor
- Deeply spiritual or simply human and honest
3. Organizing Your Thoughts
You’ll gather your thoughts and write a first draft, then a second draft to capture what is important:
- Gather your memories and stories
- Organize them into meaningful sections
- Shape them into a clear beginning, middle, and closing
4. Preparing To Deliver The Eulogy
We also focus on how to speak with confidence:
- Practicing your delivery
- Calming nerves and grounding yourself
- Learning how to pause, breathe, and speak clearly
- Tips for reading if eye contact feels too difficult
What To Expect When Working With Me
Most clients need just one to two hours of personalized coaching to:
- Create a complete, meaningful eulogy
- Gain confidence in delivering it
- Feel emotionally supported throughout the process
You Don’t Have to Carry This Moment by Yourself
If you’ve been asked to speak and feel unsure where to begin, I am here to walk beside you—gently, compassionately, and without judgment.
Together, we will ensure your message of love is heard, felt, and remembered.
Ready to begin?
Schedule a Private Eulogy Coaching Session Contact Me for Compassionate Support
